She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman

Ian Kerner offers a radical new philosophy for pleasuring women in She Comes Firstan essential guidebook to oral sex from the author of Be Honest—You’re Not That Into Him Either. 

The New York Times praises Kerner’s “cool sense of humor and an obsessive desire to inform,” as he “encourages men through an act that many find mystifying.”

An indispensable aid to a healthier, more fulfilling sex life for her and him, She Comes First offers techniques and philosophy that have already earned raves from the likes of bestselling author and Loveline co-host Dr. Drew Pinsky as well as Playgirl magazine, which cheers, “Hallelujah!”

Men have struggled valiantly since the dawn of time to find ways to reliably elicit the female orgasm, but rare is the guy who has the modesty to ask: ”What do I do?” Ironically the answer has always been right there on the tip of his tongue. 

In She Comes First, the mystery of female satisfaction is solved. 

According to Ian Kerner, clinical sexologist and evangelist of the female orgasm, oral sex is more than just foreplay, it’s coreplay– simply the best way for leading a woman through the entire process of sexual response. 

Fun, informative, and easy to read, She Comes First is a virtual encyclopedia of female pleasure, detailing dozens of tried-and-true techniques for consistently satisfying a woman and step-by-step instructions to ensure success.

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Ian Kerner

Ian Kerner is a licensed psychotherapist and nationally recognized sexuality counselor who specializes in sex therapy, couples therapy, and working with individuals on a range of relational issues that often lead to distress.

He approaches psychotherapy from an integrative perspective, which seeks to explain human behavior by bringing together physiological, affective, cognitive-behavioral, neurobiological, and systemic approaches as they apply to the natural stages of human development and the wide range of human functioning.

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